Readers Respond: How Well Do You Cope With Pain?

Honestly -- think about it. If you had to give yourself a grade for how well you cope with pain, are you an A or an F -- or somewhere in between? How have you been successful? Where is there room for improvement? Without discussing specific treatments, what has helped most in coping with pain?

Sleepwalking accident

I fell from a second story window whilst sleep walking, this resulted in 30 stitches in my head, ruptured bladder, hernias etc. now my back is playing up degenerated disc disease, heriated discs, sciatic pain in both legs, burning pain in the groin & hips no distention of my toes which makes walking painful, chronic pain all the time, been taking gabapentin 600mg 4 times a day= no good, 150mg pregablin 3 times a day= spaced out most of the time but pain still there, pain is part of my life and is a struggle. I am gradually becoming depressed but I'm strong for my son & daughter, pain is making my life a living nightmare and will continue to do so until I die. Any suggestions on how I am going to win this battle or have I lost already, reading some of these stories makes me feel like there is no hope, but if we have no hope we have nothing, keep strong, show respect, give love and receive pain relief.good luck to you all G

—Guest dude10

RSD

I have battled this for 3 yrs. I have the TENS unit but it does not help me. I have throughout my body. I would like to find a doctor who knows more about RSD to help me. Thanks.

—Guest Lisa Allen

Mono repercussions

In November of 2011, I somehow developed mono at age 64. I already had your basic knee & neck arthritis, sinus/polyp problems, and persistent skin rashes. It is now 4.5 months later and the mono symptoms persist; after 2 sinus polyp surgeries in the recent past, they are back with a vengeance; osteo seems to have turned into rheumatoid arthritis; my body rashes have changed character, will not go away and are driving me crazy; and my jaw has shrunk creating dental issues. With the failure of familiar coping mechanisms, the endless wait between dr. appointments, no working solution to any of the physical problems, and the lack of sleep, I am now on a fine emotional edge. The pain itself is bad enough, but being frightened that this will now be my life, plus the feelings of uselessness and unreliability and my partner's concern are completely overwhelming. It's awful to not look forward to tomorrow because it may bring an exaggeration of another old problem, or worse, a brand new one.

—Guest Bill Demma

Coping with pains

Some days are better than others. For me, the hospital that I am taking treatment is not doing a good job but I have switched to a doctor at his surgery and doing much better than before.The money is the problem cause I am not working, best medication needs money.

—Guest Nthabiseng

It's difficult

I am a 29 year old young woman living with illness for 8 years. Its difficult to cope, I can't even bathe myself or at times it's hard to help my son. I can't do my house chores any more and nothing seems to help with the pains. Please help me.

—Guest nthabiseng

Pain

I have had chronic pain for about 9 yrs now, my right leg and back hurt sooo bad. It's always there and never goes away. I have seen so many different types of docs and it's been a struggle to get them to help me. I am in pain management and the shots aren't working. I have had thoughts of killing myself as it just never gets better. The only way that I can function and take care of my son is to take pain meds. I don't even over take them, but I have been made to feel like I am a drug addict. I just don't understand why with all of the things out there they don't want you to use them. I am sooo tired of feeling like this. Please someone help!

—Guest amie

Jesus Christ

1 year ago I fell 26 feet from a building I was helping to construct. I landed on concrete feet first. I broke both feet, ankles, my left leg in two places and my back. For those of you out there suffering, I am with you. Despite what any of your personal beliefs are, Jesus Christ kept me alive on that concrete parking lot. Yes I hurt all day but Jesus is beside me helping me in His grace.

—Guest Randy

Sick of pain

I have had back pain since I was a teenager. I am almost 40. I cannot get rid of it. Shots, stretching exercise, new bed, cymbalta, methotrexate, enbrel, and vicodin, skelaxin no relief. I just had injections in my facet joints -- my back hurts worse. Went to pain specialist -- no help. I shouldn't have to cry myself to sleep. Many nights I need pain relief.

—Guest amorabella36

I Have Rheumatoid Arthritis

Two years ago I was diagnosed to have RA. Have swelling knees, painful joints almost all over. I was prescribed with Methotrexate. Knowing it's possible side effects I decided not to take it. For a while I took Allupurinol to manage high uric acid and at times prednisone and other pain relievers. Even these I experienced side effects. Hence I decided to stop them. How I managed my pain, joint swelling and emotional struggle? 1) Prayer and mental discipline 2) I take a lot of fresh fruits and veggies to help lower uric acid, help swelling (mangosteen fruit, lemon juice), pain (garlic, ginger, other herbs). Although the battle of pain and swelling is continuing but I have improved a lot even better than taking steroids and pain relievers.

—Guest TBA

Jesus Christ

Am 53 yeras. Have RA since age 18. Numerous joint replacements and still walking. Have been there and tried that. DMARDS, biologicals (severe skin reactions). So now I''ve turned to Jesus Christ, whom gets me up every day. Although in constant pain, my neck is now unstable (C1 & C2), I carry on with life through the Lord Jesus Christ. You know the story of the two foot prints, well the Lord is carrying me.

—tina.jones

Manageable Pain

I have Osteoarthritis of knees and recently diagnosed with Fibromyalgia alongside other musculo-skeletal problems. Pain varies but have managed to stop taking high strength codeine every 4 hours. I now just take 50mg of Amitryptyline (Elavil?) and just 2x 30/500mg co-codamol (codeine & paracetamol) before bed. I also take high strength Omega 3 and a B complex, plus an A D C & E vitamin plus 1500mg pure glucosamine daily. I also do gentle stretching whenever possible. Slowly I am getting more energy back although I don't sleep well due to discomfort but I'm getting there. Pain rating during day is 4 but at bedtime goes to 7 or 8 until pain meds kick in.

—Guest D

I HAVE GOUTY ARTHRITIS

BEFORE I NEVER HAD GOUTY ARTHRITIS. I ONLY HAD GOUTY ARTHRITIS WAS IN MY LATE 30 YEARS OLD.

—Guest PAOLOBAUTISTA

Severe neck pain

I've been living with Chronic Pain for 3 years and it all started with injuring my neck and a disc on my spinal cord. I had the fusion surgery, but it did not help with the pain. I'm now at a wonderful pain management clinic and use long acting pain medication. It helps some, but it's better than not being treated. The first year and a half I was not treated and suffered a great deal. For those who are under-treated for your pain, don't give up. Keep trying the pain management clinics until someone helps you. I did and it saved my life.

—Guest PainfulMom

Painful knee

I have experienced good results with 1500 mg of glucosamine, 2000 mg msm, 50 mg hyaluronic acid and 500 mg cat's claw per day. I take half of the first two in the morning, half in the evening with food and water. Works good for me. Takes 6 to 8 weeks to take effect.

—williamroy

Now what?

Have been under treatment for back pain (herniated disks, bulging disks, a "tear" in the upper back & then a degenerative disk disorder in the lower back) & ended up in the ER on 2/1/10 for excruciating back pain; got steroids in IV as usual & tried dilaudid (pain meds don't work for me) & this didn't so they gave me another dose-still didn't work. But came out of ER w/new burning pain in hands & like hot nails being driven into hands & fingers & pain is growing in intensity since then despite all kinds of pain meds, patches, gels, etc. Tried nerve block shots 3 wks ago & didn't work. Tests also showed acute carpal tunnel but symptoms more acute than just carpal tunnel (have those symptoms too). So 1 yr of this & have been suicidal-cannot live-cannot touch anything as the pain is so intense. Have to wear 3 pairs of white cotton gloves & then a pair of mittens on top of that. Can't drive as touching the steering wheel is too painful. Don't shower for days as too painful. Pain is growing.

—Sue6666